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Denied vacation time
How, as an intern or summer student, do you deal with a situation where you are denied opportunities because of your temporary status?How do I secure an interview with another company during the day, when I have no vacation time at my current job?Job jumping has happened, how do I save face?How to ask for time off for emotional healthOur work-week policy changed drastically. It used to be a perk. How to let them know I'm unhappy?How to ask for a vacation from a boss that doesn't like you?2 Job Offers, one offering more 20% more money, but GUT FEELING telling me to take lower oneHow do I ask my boss for time off for mental health?Is International Vacation During an Interview Process Detrimental?How should I ask my boss for vacation days for a period after my contract may end
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I'm in a difficult position because I was denied vacation time. This is a problem for me because this year I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend during this vacation. I feel like it is, to say the least, important that I take this time off. I also don't like mixing personal life with work life so I don't want to bring this up unless I have to.
This time of the year is busy for this company, and my manager told me earlier that he would get "yelled at" if approved vacation time.
For background: I have worked at this company for a few years and I am consistently one of their top performers if not the top performer. I haven't taken many vacations, but when I have I still went out of my way to complete all my work. I haven't worked many weekends, or late nights because I usually get all my work done quickly and even extra work that teammates need help with.
I'm having a hard time seeing my manager's point of view on this, because I strongly feel that work should be performance based and it shouldn't matter how long you are in the office for. I'm also going to have a hard time feeling motivated if I stay in the office this time.
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I'm in a difficult position because I was denied vacation time. This is a problem for me because this year I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend during this vacation. I feel like it is, to say the least, important that I take this time off. I also don't like mixing personal life with work life so I don't want to bring this up unless I have to.
This time of the year is busy for this company, and my manager told me earlier that he would get "yelled at" if approved vacation time.
For background: I have worked at this company for a few years and I am consistently one of their top performers if not the top performer. I haven't taken many vacations, but when I have I still went out of my way to complete all my work. I haven't worked many weekends, or late nights because I usually get all my work done quickly and even extra work that teammates need help with.
I'm having a hard time seeing my manager's point of view on this, because I strongly feel that work should be performance based and it shouldn't matter how long you are in the office for. I'm also going to have a hard time feeling motivated if I stay in the office this time.
communication career-development vacation
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That sounds frustrating and demotivating. What aspect of it are you asking for our help with? I suggest you edit your post to make the question clearer, because posts without an obvious question will attract close votes.
– Player One
3 mins ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I will edit it. I have a lot of anxiety right now over this so I did a brain dump.
– throwaway3920183838923
1 min ago
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I'm in a difficult position because I was denied vacation time. This is a problem for me because this year I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend during this vacation. I feel like it is, to say the least, important that I take this time off. I also don't like mixing personal life with work life so I don't want to bring this up unless I have to.
This time of the year is busy for this company, and my manager told me earlier that he would get "yelled at" if approved vacation time.
For background: I have worked at this company for a few years and I am consistently one of their top performers if not the top performer. I haven't taken many vacations, but when I have I still went out of my way to complete all my work. I haven't worked many weekends, or late nights because I usually get all my work done quickly and even extra work that teammates need help with.
I'm having a hard time seeing my manager's point of view on this, because I strongly feel that work should be performance based and it shouldn't matter how long you are in the office for. I'm also going to have a hard time feeling motivated if I stay in the office this time.
communication career-development vacation
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I'm in a difficult position because I was denied vacation time. This is a problem for me because this year I am planning on proposing to my girlfriend during this vacation. I feel like it is, to say the least, important that I take this time off. I also don't like mixing personal life with work life so I don't want to bring this up unless I have to.
This time of the year is busy for this company, and my manager told me earlier that he would get "yelled at" if approved vacation time.
For background: I have worked at this company for a few years and I am consistently one of their top performers if not the top performer. I haven't taken many vacations, but when I have I still went out of my way to complete all my work. I haven't worked many weekends, or late nights because I usually get all my work done quickly and even extra work that teammates need help with.
I'm having a hard time seeing my manager's point of view on this, because I strongly feel that work should be performance based and it shouldn't matter how long you are in the office for. I'm also going to have a hard time feeling motivated if I stay in the office this time.
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That sounds frustrating and demotivating. What aspect of it are you asking for our help with? I suggest you edit your post to make the question clearer, because posts without an obvious question will attract close votes.
– Player One
3 mins ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I will edit it. I have a lot of anxiety right now over this so I did a brain dump.
– throwaway3920183838923
1 min ago
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That sounds frustrating and demotivating. What aspect of it are you asking for our help with? I suggest you edit your post to make the question clearer, because posts without an obvious question will attract close votes.
– Player One
3 mins ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I will edit it. I have a lot of anxiety right now over this so I did a brain dump.
– throwaway3920183838923
1 min ago
That sounds frustrating and demotivating. What aspect of it are you asking for our help with? I suggest you edit your post to make the question clearer, because posts without an obvious question will attract close votes.
– Player One
3 mins ago
That sounds frustrating and demotivating. What aspect of it are you asking for our help with? I suggest you edit your post to make the question clearer, because posts without an obvious question will attract close votes.
– Player One
3 mins ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I will edit it. I have a lot of anxiety right now over this so I did a brain dump.
– throwaway3920183838923
1 min ago
Thanks for the suggestion. I will edit it. I have a lot of anxiety right now over this so I did a brain dump.
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