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Billy is a violent and angry person and has a desire to kill and injure people to feel good. He has no outlet in polite society.
A Ben Soreh (rebellious son) case actually occurs in his town and as the verse says
"And all the men of his city shall pelt him to death with stones, and he shall die."
On one hand, Billy has an outlet to help kill this victim and he will have a kosher way to exercise his desire to kill.
On the other hand, Billy is indulging his desire. Some may say this makes his middos worse?
Is there a concern that Billy will develop worse middos if he participates in the execution?
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Billy is a violent and angry person and has a desire to kill and injure people to feel good. He has no outlet in polite society.
A Ben Soreh (rebellious son) case actually occurs in his town and as the verse says
"And all the men of his city shall pelt him to death with stones, and he shall die."
On one hand, Billy has an outlet to help kill this victim and he will have a kosher way to exercise his desire to kill.
On the other hand, Billy is indulging his desire. Some may say this makes his middos worse?
Is there a concern that Billy will develop worse middos if he participates in the execution?
mussar-ethics
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Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago
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Billy is a violent and angry person and has a desire to kill and injure people to feel good. He has no outlet in polite society.
A Ben Soreh (rebellious son) case actually occurs in his town and as the verse says
"And all the men of his city shall pelt him to death with stones, and he shall die."
On one hand, Billy has an outlet to help kill this victim and he will have a kosher way to exercise his desire to kill.
On the other hand, Billy is indulging his desire. Some may say this makes his middos worse?
Is there a concern that Billy will develop worse middos if he participates in the execution?
mussar-ethics
Billy is a violent and angry person and has a desire to kill and injure people to feel good. He has no outlet in polite society.
A Ben Soreh (rebellious son) case actually occurs in his town and as the verse says
"And all the men of his city shall pelt him to death with stones, and he shall die."
On one hand, Billy has an outlet to help kill this victim and he will have a kosher way to exercise his desire to kill.
On the other hand, Billy is indulging his desire. Some may say this makes his middos worse?
Is there a concern that Billy will develop worse middos if he participates in the execution?
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Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago
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Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago
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Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago
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Shabbat156a
האי מאן דבמאדים יהי גבר אשיד דמא אמר רבי אשי אי אומנא אי גנבא אי טבחא אי מוהלא אמר רבה אנא במאדים הורי אמר אביי מר נמי עניש וקטיל
‘He who is born under Mars will be a shedder of blood. R. Ashi observed: Either a surgeon, a thief, a slaughterer, or a circumciser. Rabbah said: I was born under Mars. Abaye retorted: You too inflict punishment and kill.
(Soncino translation)
It sounds like you should channel your natural proclivities towards something permissible.
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+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
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I asked my Rabbi Z"L a similar question many years ago: assuming one's Middos are the tools that G-d provides, should one make use of it or overcome it, as we saw from Avraham's Akedah example.
The answer was that there are two levels of Avodas Hashem - on a lower level one makes use of the Middos - if he loves violence he could be a Shochet or an executor, as you mentioned. On a higher level, he should overcome "bad" Middos as G-d testifies for Avraham that was Middas Chesed on his last test "אתה ידעתי כי יראה א' אתה". He became "fearful" (or something). But that's much harder work.
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Shabbat156a
האי מאן דבמאדים יהי גבר אשיד דמא אמר רבי אשי אי אומנא אי גנבא אי טבחא אי מוהלא אמר רבה אנא במאדים הורי אמר אביי מר נמי עניש וקטיל
‘He who is born under Mars will be a shedder of blood. R. Ashi observed: Either a surgeon, a thief, a slaughterer, or a circumciser. Rabbah said: I was born under Mars. Abaye retorted: You too inflict punishment and kill.
(Soncino translation)
It sounds like you should channel your natural proclivities towards something permissible.
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+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
3 hours ago
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Shabbat156a
האי מאן דבמאדים יהי גבר אשיד דמא אמר רבי אשי אי אומנא אי גנבא אי טבחא אי מוהלא אמר רבה אנא במאדים הורי אמר אביי מר נמי עניש וקטיל
‘He who is born under Mars will be a shedder of blood. R. Ashi observed: Either a surgeon, a thief, a slaughterer, or a circumciser. Rabbah said: I was born under Mars. Abaye retorted: You too inflict punishment and kill.
(Soncino translation)
It sounds like you should channel your natural proclivities towards something permissible.
2
+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
3 hours ago
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Shabbat156a
האי מאן דבמאדים יהי גבר אשיד דמא אמר רבי אשי אי אומנא אי גנבא אי טבחא אי מוהלא אמר רבה אנא במאדים הורי אמר אביי מר נמי עניש וקטיל
‘He who is born under Mars will be a shedder of blood. R. Ashi observed: Either a surgeon, a thief, a slaughterer, or a circumciser. Rabbah said: I was born under Mars. Abaye retorted: You too inflict punishment and kill.
(Soncino translation)
It sounds like you should channel your natural proclivities towards something permissible.
Shabbat156a
האי מאן דבמאדים יהי גבר אשיד דמא אמר רבי אשי אי אומנא אי גנבא אי טבחא אי מוהלא אמר רבה אנא במאדים הורי אמר אביי מר נמי עניש וקטיל
‘He who is born under Mars will be a shedder of blood. R. Ashi observed: Either a surgeon, a thief, a slaughterer, or a circumciser. Rabbah said: I was born under Mars. Abaye retorted: You too inflict punishment and kill.
(Soncino translation)
It sounds like you should channel your natural proclivities towards something permissible.
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+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
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+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
3 hours ago
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+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
3 hours ago
+1 One famous Rabbi once used this gemara as an intro and said someone with the teva to be michalel shabbos should join hatzala:)
– user6591
3 hours ago
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I asked my Rabbi Z"L a similar question many years ago: assuming one's Middos are the tools that G-d provides, should one make use of it or overcome it, as we saw from Avraham's Akedah example.
The answer was that there are two levels of Avodas Hashem - on a lower level one makes use of the Middos - if he loves violence he could be a Shochet or an executor, as you mentioned. On a higher level, he should overcome "bad" Middos as G-d testifies for Avraham that was Middas Chesed on his last test "אתה ידעתי כי יראה א' אתה". He became "fearful" (or something). But that's much harder work.
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I asked my Rabbi Z"L a similar question many years ago: assuming one's Middos are the tools that G-d provides, should one make use of it or overcome it, as we saw from Avraham's Akedah example.
The answer was that there are two levels of Avodas Hashem - on a lower level one makes use of the Middos - if he loves violence he could be a Shochet or an executor, as you mentioned. On a higher level, he should overcome "bad" Middos as G-d testifies for Avraham that was Middas Chesed on his last test "אתה ידעתי כי יראה א' אתה". He became "fearful" (or something). But that's much harder work.
add a comment
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I asked my Rabbi Z"L a similar question many years ago: assuming one's Middos are the tools that G-d provides, should one make use of it or overcome it, as we saw from Avraham's Akedah example.
The answer was that there are two levels of Avodas Hashem - on a lower level one makes use of the Middos - if he loves violence he could be a Shochet or an executor, as you mentioned. On a higher level, he should overcome "bad" Middos as G-d testifies for Avraham that was Middas Chesed on his last test "אתה ידעתי כי יראה א' אתה". He became "fearful" (or something). But that's much harder work.
I asked my Rabbi Z"L a similar question many years ago: assuming one's Middos are the tools that G-d provides, should one make use of it or overcome it, as we saw from Avraham's Akedah example.
The answer was that there are two levels of Avodas Hashem - on a lower level one makes use of the Middos - if he loves violence he could be a Shochet or an executor, as you mentioned. On a higher level, he should overcome "bad" Middos as G-d testifies for Avraham that was Middas Chesed on his last test "אתה ידעתי כי יראה א' אתה". He became "fearful" (or something). But that's much harder work.
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Can we exchange Ben Su"M with a Shabbos transgressor, please, so we won't argue on whether it is fictional or real.
– Al Berko
7 hours ago
sefaria.org.il/Chullin.109b.12?lang=bi
– Joel K
7 hours ago
Yibum when it's not lishmah is kind of like this
– Heshy
7 hours ago
I think shabbos transgressors may be executed by witnesses or agents of the court but I know the laws for Ben Soreh or the Rebellious city are different.
– Clint Eastwood
7 hours ago
@Clint Al’s correct - Ben Sorer u’Moreh may or may not be real, but Chiyuvei Misas Beis Din who escaped can be killed by anyone.
– DonielF
1 hour ago