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Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have a lost endgame?


How do Kramnik and Topalov indicate a resignation when they play together?How to resign when my opponent is not at the board?How to teach (intermediary) chess to small groups with little timeWhat are the actions one can do against Chess.com players who stop moving when they are in an objectively losing position and refuse to resign?






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I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



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    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
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    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

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    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

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I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



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  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    7 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago













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I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



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I really don't know if I am correct when I ask my opponent to resign when I am at a 1800-1900 ELO level. I have an Asperger disorder. To me ,endgames are more clear to play than middlegames, and the game looses interest when I think a newbie would win it. I sometimes ask my opponent to resign and play a rematch. Sometimes it has an effect, and they resign. At other times, I feel myself uncouth.



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Is it unfair to ask for a resignation in these kinds positions in an online chess game?







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  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    7 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago












  • 4





    I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

    – konsolas
    8 hours ago






  • 4





    Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

    – Qudit
    8 hours ago











  • Another day, another edit!

    – Rewan Demontay
    7 hours ago






  • 1





    You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

    – Allure
    2 hours ago







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I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

– konsolas
8 hours ago





I feel that someone else to resign is a little rude, though it might not be a big deal. You should absolutely respect their decision if they don't - it is their choice after all.

– konsolas
8 hours ago




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Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

– Qudit
8 hours ago





Your opponent has every right to play on if they wish. You should never ask your opponent to resign.

– Qudit
8 hours ago













Another day, another edit!

– Rewan Demontay
7 hours ago





Another day, another edit!

– Rewan Demontay
7 hours ago




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You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

– Allure
2 hours ago





You might be interested: boardgames.stackexchange.com/questions/48318/… (although this is for another game, the concepts are the same).

– Allure
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Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
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Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






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  • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

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Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







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    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






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    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

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    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






    share|improve this answer

























    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
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    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.






    share|improve this answer














    Is it rude to ask my opponent to resign an online game when they have
    a lost endgame?




    Yes, it is rude, although you are in good company. In one Olympiad Victor Korchnoi is alleged to have asked his opponent - "Do you speak English?" When they said "Yes" he replied "Then please resign". I may be misquoting. He may not have said "please" :-)



    Strictly speaking today what Korchnoi did is not allowed in over the board chess because it is disturbing the opponent. In online chess, however, trash talking is more acceptable because the opponent can always mute by switching off chat.







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    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago


















    • I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

      – Universal_learner
      6 hours ago

















    I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

    – Universal_learner
    6 hours ago






    I sometimes discuse on correpondance eg at move 20 oh my last move on 18th move was a mistake and we discuse it. It is not the same as on board with time control. But I think I should not ask for resign more. Just if I feel boring to end the game I will be quiet and I will accept my oponnent liberty of playing it

    – Universal_learner
    6 hours ago














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    Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




    Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
    is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







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      Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




      Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
      is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







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        Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




        Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
        is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.







        share|improve this answer















        Brian Towers answered the question, but to help you understand why people don't resign, I recommend you watch this lecture by GM Finegold Blunders, with GM Ben Finegold. The gist of it is:




        Never resign, and look for resources no matter how bad your position
        is. And when you are winning, don't let your guard down.








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