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Leaving a job and asking for references


How to decline an already accepted offer, professionally and politely, if I want to accept counteroffer from current employer?In an interview how can I explain the short duration of my last job?What's the best way to part ways after a month at a company and will leaving affect future employment?What is the best way I can resign from my present job when VISA issues mean I will be out of the country?Resigning a new job because of ethical and legal dilemas?What do I do about my manager retracting our agreement about my tentative last day of working for him?My boss has made it very difficult to do my job, what can i do?Is it common to discuss the intent to leave with a manager before giving notice of resignation?How to handle manager when handing in my notice after lying about not looking for a new jobHow to tell employee I'll accept a new offer right after signing













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I am a recent graduate from college and have been employed at my current job for 8 months and it unfortunately is not a good fit. After having a very negative performance review from my manager in which she emphasized all of my shortcoming but never discussed my accomplishments I decided to look for other jobs while putting in my best effort to improve at my current job. I have made some improvements at my current job but I am still unhappy at it. I have been offered another job. When I resign from my current job I want to discuss with my manager the possibility that she may be contacted by future employers and I want to mitigate a bad reference. How do I bring this up with her? Ideally I would like to have her agree to just confirm my dates of employment and not say anything bad.










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    I am a recent graduate from college and have been employed at my current job for 8 months and it unfortunately is not a good fit. After having a very negative performance review from my manager in which she emphasized all of my shortcoming but never discussed my accomplishments I decided to look for other jobs while putting in my best effort to improve at my current job. I have made some improvements at my current job but I am still unhappy at it. I have been offered another job. When I resign from my current job I want to discuss with my manager the possibility that she may be contacted by future employers and I want to mitigate a bad reference. How do I bring this up with her? Ideally I would like to have her agree to just confirm my dates of employment and not say anything bad.










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      I am a recent graduate from college and have been employed at my current job for 8 months and it unfortunately is not a good fit. After having a very negative performance review from my manager in which she emphasized all of my shortcoming but never discussed my accomplishments I decided to look for other jobs while putting in my best effort to improve at my current job. I have made some improvements at my current job but I am still unhappy at it. I have been offered another job. When I resign from my current job I want to discuss with my manager the possibility that she may be contacted by future employers and I want to mitigate a bad reference. How do I bring this up with her? Ideally I would like to have her agree to just confirm my dates of employment and not say anything bad.










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      I am a recent graduate from college and have been employed at my current job for 8 months and it unfortunately is not a good fit. After having a very negative performance review from my manager in which she emphasized all of my shortcoming but never discussed my accomplishments I decided to look for other jobs while putting in my best effort to improve at my current job. I have made some improvements at my current job but I am still unhappy at it. I have been offered another job. When I resign from my current job I want to discuss with my manager the possibility that she may be contacted by future employers and I want to mitigate a bad reference. How do I bring this up with her? Ideally I would like to have her agree to just confirm my dates of employment and not say anything bad.







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